Anonymous said: I can't seem to meet someone right for me and I know it must somehow be possible. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Hi anon. Two answers came to mind.
One, is to live your life doing the social type activities that you love, without any focus on meeting someone. Get into each event, whatever that may be, enjoying your freedom as a single person. Trick here is to really drop feeling the need to meet someone. Not easy, so that is why you must feel the enjoyment of the activity.
Two, is to use visualization, and magnetize yourself as someone to be desired, loved, fully enjoyed… for who you are. Do that daily for at least 15 minutes per day. More is better here. Stay positive throughout as that is the key here. Magnetization is very powerful.
Do both. Yup, do both.
Invite me to the wedding :)
Anonymous said: I find myself repeating relationship patterns over and over. Meaning, regardless of the person I am seeing, the same things come up. So this tells me, that the issue is in me but I don't know how to break it. And I tend to attract a very specific type of person, intense and troubled.
I have found that patterns in life repeat until we are fully ok with their message.
Also, like in dreams, you are all of the parties involved.
so, You feel that you are also troubled and intense, so you gravitate to that need, as if you were caring for that aspect of you.
We all try to save ourselves in others. Better is to recognize your own need, get to love and caring of yourself… then your next partner will embody a different aspect of you :)
It’s all part of growth… enjoy the ride.
Hugs for your serious concern!!
I have edged…
I have cried
I have whispered…
I love you
and I’ve done so
shamelessly, in empty rooms
throughout the house
In stylized letters,
I’ll never send out
I’m husky and worn out
I’m fucking cumming…
And it happened…
but you are not there
As the plaque on my door says:
Bring your lovesick questions through this door, and together we will roll on the floor.
Yes that makes no sense, but that is rhyming for ya.